I spent nearly a month trying to source one. Obsolete from dealers and tps, even the specialist vw heritage said they were completely obsolete with non anywhere in germany
the relay is also used on gt's and is the fan relay on the t25 bus but again they dont usually turn up at scrap yards, went every weekend an couldnt ever get one
could try someone whos breaking one on club polo but they always go pretty fast
theres a couple on german ebay, they look specially made, but at 50 euros, ill pass
They dont make repo ones so places like gsf,euro parts and camberlys dont do them
Good luck