It's to allow you to "program" the time gap between intermittent wipes. e.g. a std intermittent wipe time gap between wipes would be 3 seconds (I can't remember exactly, just plucking numbers from thin air here).
So.....
Wipe
3 second wait
Wipe
3 second wait
Wipe
and so on.....
This relay allows you to alter that time gap, again I forget exact timings, the range can be (for example) 1-8 seconds. So you can set that time gap to anywhere in that range. To do this, or "set the gap" you put it onto intermittent wipe, let it wipe until it stops, return the stalk back to the off setting and wait for however long you want the gap, then turn intermittent wipe back on and you should notice the gap is now whatever you set it at.
Set stalk to intermittent wipe
(Wipers wipe)
Set stalk to Off position
wait 1-8 seconds (however long it is)
Set stalk to intermittent position.
gap will now be whatever you set it as.
I think you may be able to do the same with the rear, I forget if that's a separate relay, haven't done this for about 8 years.